the second you stop comparing yourself and suffocating your potential everything gets easier. as soon as you turn “i want” to “i’m going to” everything gets easier. when you choose to lead with love everything gets easier. everything you want is right there, fucking take it and don’t look back
I wonder how many people don’t get the one they want, but end up with the one they’re supposed to be with.
I used to think it was important to have common interests with the person that you are in a relationship with but now I think it is more important to be similar in other aspects. like how kind you are. how you treat the people you care about, how you treat strangers. how you deal with anger. how you deal with pain. and not necessarily dealing with all these things the same way but being perseptive enough to understand what action each situation calls for. it’s important for both people to be on the same page about what that action should be. it’s important to me to have that kind of synchrony.
No offense but literally nothing and no one is and will ever be out of your league. Nothing is too good for you. Nobody has the right to make you feel like you are not enough or less than you are, you deserve the world.
